Pigtails, I think we are often surprised by how much things change when we stop drinking. I know, for me, I really became aware of things in my life that been issues. And, good for you for recognizing that you and your boyfriend are each on your own journeys. The best thing you can do, is to show him by example, how your life is changing for the better. You will know when you feel it's the right time to make a choice about the relationship, or not. Have faith and trust in yourself. You're doing great!
