I re-read this entire thread again. I called my sponsor this morning as I do every morning, and amazingly, the opportunity came for me to bring up this subject. We had a very productive, non-defensive conversation about it. Although she did trail off several times about “considering or using certain folks as sponsors”, she ultimately agreed that she does need to find an actual sponsor. I think it’s amazing how we all heal each other, no matter where we are in sobriety. I am in a very different place today and am grateful that I am open and willing to hear and really receive feed back today. Thanks again everyone!
