Originally Posted by
2ndchance2011 
... and I have been doing just about everything she suggests--
It really comes down to what is she suggesting? Is it the directions in the BB for having a spiritual awakening, or is it other suggestions? How far through the Steps had you gotten before you returned to drinking? What Step are you on now?
Because if that sponsor does not have you knee deep in the BB a couple weeks after a relapse, ask why, and be very afraid.
By the way, I have a sponsor, and my sponsor has a sponsor. His sponsor also has a sponsor.