That's got to be tough with both of you feeding off each other. I know a lot of couples in AA, some who found each other after being sober, others who came in together -- you can do this!!! Maybe if you were successful at making a good drunk out of him, you can make a good AAer out of him!
If there are multiple meetings in your area, try a few, get back into the Big Book and definitely pray! Remember, it's still one day at a time (sometimes a minute or an hour at a time).
God bless...
Ken