I am just at a loss. I feel like I have a child who is constantly trying to get attention rather than a recovering alcoholic trying to save his marriage. He does my laundry but makes sure I know about it, moves the "elf on the shelf" when it was my things with the kids (too be funny), uses up the hamburger in my fridge, cleans the house but makes a remark about how messy something was. This is my house right now. Full rights. Legal and everything, The only reason he is not watching them at his dad's house is because he smokes. I am still walking on eggshells and he is not drinking or living there!
Today, he made sure the divorce papers gave him two nights with the kids, he texts me can I get them? He has stuff to do for his mom until 4. I said fine then realize the oldest has a club until 4:30 so say he should be able to get them. His answer, you said the youngest shouldn't be at daycare past 3:30 because that is too long of a day.
More to that, on Tuesdays my kids go to school at 7:00. I do think if not necessary they should be picked up at 3:30. I told him that so he didn't leave them there until it closes at 6 when it wasn't necessary.
I know I am rambling and this might not make any sense to anyone else, I just needed to get it out. I feel like I am crazy. Other people would say "he is doing your laundry, deal with it!" Does anyone understand?
