Hey Cool. I suggest living your life and being an example. If you stay sober, she will have someone that "understands". I believe that other than that, there is little we can do for the alcoholic that still suffers. Keep it simple for yourself. Pray and love her to pieces. For me all the should quits, why don't you quits?, treatment centers and chaotic life episodes were never enough. I am sorry for you concern. Take Care my friend (())s from lushly PS life sounds gooood for you. I am glad