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Old 12-18-2011, 05:25 PM
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It could be too much, too soon.

You are in very early recovery and that's a time when I really needed to focus on myself. It took all of my energy. And, the fact that you were in a long-term, abusive relationship is kind of a red flag that maybe you should take some time for yourself. Have you considered counselling? For me, I would want to be sure that I LOVED myself before I started a new relationship. And, you can't love yourself when you are being abused by another person and by alcohol.
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