Kitty
You bring to mind a favorite song of mine that Saffire and the Uppity Blueswomen do called 'Better Than No Man at All'. Anyway, sometimes I wish my exa had another woman, then I would feel justified a little more at throwing him out. May be then I could get a little child support also. Selfish me. Just enjoy this time with yourself, as it sounds as if you are. Quiet times are when the HP has his best conversations with you.