BobbyJ

This weekend, my female roommate got drunk. Like super down falling drunk.
We were at some friends house and it took 3 people to get her up the stairs.
She yelled and screamed "Dont make me go home with her, she is mean, I hate her, she is mean"
I told her that she could stay there, I was not going to put up with it.
It took 3 people to load her into my car. She screamed yelled kicked and then cried. The hole time begging them not to make her go home with me.

I had to literally hold her up, and dang near packed her up 20 flights of stairs, to get her to bed.

I got up and took off for the day...Thinking & Stewing...And repeating "NO ONE WILL EVER YELL AT ME and CALL ME BAD NAMES AGAIN!!!!"

So I come home and there she was, a bawling mess. The usual Im sorry's...
The usual I dont know why's..The usual I dont know what happen...
GRrrr.............

I told her I know you drink up stairs and I have kept my mouth shut
But last night, was it for me, time for you to move out!

But I worry about paying the house payment now....

Do I flip a coin? Im confussed.....Im scared......and Im MAD

I cant stand her drinking, even if she is upstairs. It mentally bothers
me to the point of crazy......I have done that for 15 years....

I told her today, that until she gets help and make a choice, her life
will be a mess. And like my xah, I can not help you.....I have tried
to encourage you to a better way of life, but as far as the drinking
that is your choice....

What are your thoughts?? Flip a coin, move her out, mind my own business?