Yeah, an addict will blame anyone to keep his/her allusion of lies alive within their own minds. My ABF has told me on MANY occassions that he would be able to stay clean if it weren't for me in his life. I apparently drive him THAT crazy. I say HAHA and call his bluff. The jerk was DRUNK the first night I met him and messed up on either alcohol or pills or whatever else was in front of him at the time. I have known him for almost five years and I would be surprised if he was flat out sober for even two weeks of the entire time. He had to move across country to get away from an opiate addiciton that nearly killed him and ended up finding it out here too. Thank goodness for him he got off that or he might be dead. YET, I am too blame for his use. I just say HA.HA.HA. Whatever, have fun getting DRUNK again.