Hello
I am having some good success with a program called "Women for Sobriety".
This program has 13 statements and 6 levels of growth starting with acceptance and moving into new ways of thinking and being. It focuses on accepting your addiction and forming new thought patterns to remove negativity and roadblocks to sobriety, while letting go of the past and becoming a new person. It's called the "New Life" program. I've found it very helpful in moving forward in sobriety and letting go of guilt, shame and negativity.
ETA I am almost 3 months sober from a 3 year relapse after about 4 yrs of sobriety