Welcome,
You found a safe place to share and find support we help one another through this.
Have him check out this site, he might want to join. I also recommend him and you go to a Nar-anon meeting, it's a f2f support group for friends and family.
The A must want recovery for there selves, but we can start on our own recovery.
Others will be along soon with more help.
Read the stickies, and keep posting.
Be well,