he doesn't even HAVE a drug problem anymore...he hasn't smoked for the past two months (while he was in jail) and is never going to smoke again, so OBVIOUSLY he does not need drug treatment. And he certainly doesn't need any counseling
Sometimes I worry that he will be too manipulative even for THEM...especially since the Unit Supervisor I spoke to was full of praise about how mature and grounded my son is, more so than the rest of the kids they have there.
This all sounds exactly like my son when he was in Rehab at around your son's age. And this is what the counselors used to say about my son too, everytime that he's been in Rehab or incarcerated anywhere. They are so so good at pulling the wool over anyone's eyes.
You are doing absolutely awesome with dealing with your addict son. Keep it up.