Originally Posted by
HopefulWifeHere 
If the bolded was really his reason for drinking again, then that shows where his priorities lie. HE is responsible for his sobriety, and nothing you do should be blamed for it if he falls.
Yes...you're absolutely right. I made this point to him, "You can't blame me for any relapses" and he stated that he doesn't need my help to stay sober...that's his job.
It's really a terrible thing. I care and I want to help...but I know that help can also hurt. I'm trying to learn where that line is...and I genuinely appreciate the advice.
Are there any phrases/words/conversations that one should AVOID during this time period? Are their healthy conversations to have?