TitiEmily,
All I can really say here is WOW. You really handled all of that well. It sounds to me like you really know what you're doing. I am very sorry that you're heartbroken & how much you miss him. You do seem like a really good Mother. I hope that you will be able to continue to withstand his tactics of manipulation, for your sake as well as for his. I hope that you do make it to that Al-Anon Meeting tomorrow night. They really do help.