I do. He is not physically or emotionally abusive to me-he is still working & responsible (as far as paying bills, etc-we are in financial trouble, but not because of money spent on alcohol-because the economy crash obliterated our business & we are just squeaking by). We've discussed it to death, made promises, etc etc. I used to spend all my time trying to figure out how to save him-now i am learning about how to take care of myself. It's hard, but this board helps me immensely...
He is diagnosed as bipolar/add & i believe he drinks when he just cannot take the feelings that come with those things anymore. He is seeing a Therapist & medicated, to the point of being much better, but i know at any time that is all subject to change.