Your question?? Is there hope for my marriage???. Of course there is.
Read all the posts here.
Along with this site hope you have tried Al-Anon.
Have you tried not going out to party, could you say I am going to a Movie or to whatever, you go ahead to party if you want.
We learn it is best to say nothing about his drinking. We learn it doesn't work.
just wanted to say WELCOME TO SR and "HUGSs" and understanding. clancy46