I am very careful that my children have never heard anything, they are in bed when he is ranting, but I make him go home if he yells too much and they are home. Actually I have to say he has stopped coming over if he is at all mad at me, which happens a couple times a week. UGH. Also, he does not come at all two other nights because he is a writer. (I guess-I've never seen a finished article or screenplay.) He is always drinking when he is alone, so I imagine he doesn't really write much. (when he says he is) I am feeling resentful toward him. I feel the love endorphins draaaaaaaining out of me. WHICH is a GREAT sign!!! makes me happy. Moving on will be that much easier. I believe that someday I will meet someone who is kind and gentle, (more like me) and WHO doesn't go to the bar alone. (yuck) makes me sick.