Originally Posted by
Dee74 
change is always difficult in a relationship, especially if only one partner is committed to change....
it's early days though and you two sound like you have great communication between you, which is pretty much the best thing you can have, I think.
I'm glad you're staying committed to recovery pigtails
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I am very grateful for our good communication and openness/honesty. I think/hope we will be okay because of that. Even if he doesn't always agree with me or I with him, we always say what's on our mind and listen/try to understand each other, and that's important to me.