Originally Posted by Anna

I'm glad you enjoyed your Thanksgiving weekend.

It's not unusual that your boyfriend is reacting to the changes you're trying to make. People don't generally like change and he is probably wondering how this will work out. When I stopped drinking, I knew for certain that I had to focus on myself and my needs and give up trying to be what others wanted me to be. It was scary and hard but I needed to do it to save my life.

I think you found that there's a lot more to recovery than just stopping drinking. You didn't drink during the weekend and that wasn't too hard for you, but all the emotional fallout is more difficult to deal with. But you're doing great!

I also felt like a child when I began recovery. I had no idea that the small things in life could be so fulfilling and wonderful. I love getting up first in the morning, grinding the coffee beans and making breakfast. It's my favourite time of the day.