It was my son's friend in the car. I think she just wants to know what is going on with me, she feels alienated from me and we don't talk and she wants to be like a mom to me since my mom died 4 years ago. I don't think she is evil, she just longs for connection since her daughters are not close to her. This does not mean I condone her behavior, I am just giving you some background info. thanks!!! I think I will stop talking to her, I feel yuck afterwards..... a sign from my HP...