So sorry that you are going through this crepe.
What can you do? :codiepolice
Do her a favor, let her face the consequences of her bad decisions, let her fall to her knees, and perhaps she will seek recovery for life. The chances are slim, as less than 10% of all people that embrace recovery... recover for life....sad, but true...so, you must continue to live your life, step back and turn her over to the HP. She is already in the HP's hands...it is just a matter of you accepting that fact.
Read all the stickies and keep posting...we are here for you.