When I go I don't shout it from the rooftops that I am in recovery. If someone asks me I am very selective of who I share my Anonymity with... it is mine and mine alone to share with the people that are close to me. For that reason when I go out I will often have a "mock-tail"... my most favorite one is an Anarold Palmer.... a tonic water and lime. noone is really ever playing that close of attention... and I still fit in without having to let everyone know that I am in recovery.