[QUOTE=journeygal;98073]Hi Rainy,
At some point I finally realized something - I have no idea what it's like to be an addict and my husband has no idea what it's like to live with one. And for us to try and get the other to see how life is from our sides of the street is damn near impossible.
These are exactly the words I needed to hear today. I'm so suffering trying to "understand" what has caused him to do the things he has. This is a brilliant insight. It's like asking to know the un-knowable.
Thank you for this...I detached just a little bit more