Hi Lily
It is entirely possible to have a loving relationship with an alcoholic free of all the drama I've sure you've had in the past
I'm a firm believer in you get out of recovery what you put in, so it's up to your bf really - I think it's a great sign he's put himself into treatment, though.
Personally I don't think it's necessary for you to go to meetings with him, unless you yourself want to, & he'd be ok with that - you might want to check out AlAnon for yourself tho?
We also have a Family and Friends forum that you might like to look at as well
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ily-alcoholics
Welcome
D