We would need more info about his use and what's happened in your relationship to tell you more about we've experienced. No doubt the support and love I receive from my husband is great but we have a long history together, are married and have a child. I guess you' have to ask yourself where your relationship is going and figure out if you want to be with someone who will have struggles. We all have them but is this one you can accept and the type of life that will come with it?