(((heartbroken)))
Im not a mom but a dad, it has been more than three months for me since I told my son he had to leave and I have not heard from him as of yet. I let go and let God. I pray for him every morning, and every night. That is all I can do for him. As long as I don't get a call from the hospital or the police I know he is out here somewhere. He is smart enough to survive, and knows where to go for help. He has to fight the disease himself.
I read and post here and go to nar-anon meetings. That helps me detach with love and heal myself. I pray we both heal and someday we will be together as a family again. We have Faith, Hope, and Love, that will get us through this. With nar-anon I have met and know lots and lots of recovering addicts that have made it so I know God will bring him through this. As well as your son too.
Be well,