Confusion?
My little codie head and heart is very confused about a regular saying we have on this side, "work the program that you wish he/she would."
I understand it is about taking care of me and working my own program. I am struggling though that it sends of HUGE red flags for me because I have been pretty good at getting support for myself through the years. I think I am reading that statement as another thing that I am attempting to do for the loved ones in my life that struggle with addiction.
I know I am missing something in this, but would appreciate some clarity on my "stinkin thinkin."