Hi Anniecake,
You're doing good to look at the positive side of things because things will get better day by day. You made it through a tough spell...having to get your husband to a detox facility is a difficult move. I don't doubt that you're waiting for something good to come of this. Only problem is, the detox facility can only give your husband suggestions to help him to follow a pathway to recovery. He has to make the hard choices as to whether he will come clean and go through the necessary lifestyle changes to meet that challenge. Financial difficulties prevail among all of us...sometimes health has to take a front seat. I pray that you'll find support and guidance at the Al-Anon meeting. All of us support you and pray that you'll find the strength to get through today. It's healthy that you stay connected to others during this time. Prayers.
Sandy