I do not have the answer to your question sm
about the house or what happens at detox. I know I would feel just like you if my husband had to be gone from me. I do not that two years ago when he started drinking that we had a fight and I had this strange feeling he was going to leave me. He wasn't, but I could have kept up my yelling and caused more trouble. I prayed to God to know what to say to him and to keep evil away from him. I called him on the phone. It was strange how I just picked up the phone and later when he came home he said something about I had said all the right things. One night when he was at the bar late, I prayed to God to bring him home NOW. Keep him safe and surround him with angels and keep evil away. He walked in the door within 10 minutes. He goes to a bar across the street and it takes probably 5 minutes or so to get home, so something got him moving. We had to go through bankrupcy a few years ago and we were very afraid, but it happened and we lived. I hope you get some good news or relief today.