Originally Posted by
vujade 
Would he do that to a co-worker? To the next door neighbor? Or better yet...to a stranger??? We should certainly treat our spouses better than we would treat a complete stranger.
I just had to comment that this quote really hit home for me in regard to a completely different situation. Thank you!
As far as this subject goes, I have to agree with a PP that both parties were out of line here. I'm sure it wasn't life-or-death that you vacuum that spot RIGHT THEN. And I think it was very controlling of him to act the way he did. It sounds like a case of both parties reacting emotionally and not rationally. Just talk it out calmly with him later if you can.