Rita, Thank you for your post. It was what I needed to read. My daughter is once again in jail. Same thing... feeling something was up... finding out she was in. And today tried to remember how many times now, and yah know, I just didn't want to sit down and try and count. Now is when I sit and write her that letter. And try and get a visitation. It sucks. I hope she has her awakening moment soon.