really? I realize me vacuuming was not respectful, but does he really need to grab from me? He has grabbed the phone from me when I called 911 when he was drinking and driving. I was once in an abusive relationship, it was nothing like this, but I tend to be extra-sensitive when it comes to physical interactions of this nature. I own that I was in the wrong, but I really dwell on these things and find it difficult to move on without some perspective.