Originally Posted by
steve1840 
i threw away my bongs and bowls 16 months ago.i dont want to feel that i am tossing her aside like that, but i probably shouldnt look at it that way anyway.
How about seeing it as "I stopped using her like that."
Every codie relationship (addiction) involves using someone to meet needs. It was an ugly truth that I used my daughter, but the honesty helped set us both free.