yeah. i have heard a lot about people going in but not staying. last year there was a lot of that with her. she'd get to detox but not stay, get to salvation army but not go in. then there was a long period where it was no longer mentioned, until she moved and did the outpatient thing. i really didnt think that would work. over the past few months the only talk of it was after jail and then yesterday. so i realize that even going in, doesnt mean a whole lot. its just that they are so stuck in their addiction, and sad when we are stuck too. but i am freeing myself to reclaim me