AXBF use to call me and tell me he was going to rehab. Then he would say "aren't you proud of me??" He has been in and out of rehabs so many times, that going to rehab was not actions in the right direction for me. Especially since every time he gets out after about 2-4 weeks, he is back to hanging with the drug buddies, no job, no efforts, leeching off anyone who will let him get ahold. Am I hopeful that he will someday get on his path to recovery? yes. But am I willing to stand by and wait for that to happen? Absolutely not, I have my own life to live and enjoy.