Yep, Fourmaggie. Keeping DS safe is my only concern when it comes to dealing with his visits with XAH. Keeping both of us safe is my only concern with just dealing with XAH in general. I think I've come a long way from when I first left XAH. I no longer feel I have to try to talk XAH into going into rehab. I no longer worry about where he's working or if he's working. Though I also know I have a lot work ahead of me regarding detaching and healing.
Yeah, I did take a little too much spiteful glee in GF's statement that XAH was beyond help. It's not like I rubbed her nose in it; though man, was that urge ever there.
However, it's interesting to note that GF's statement could help show the court that measures are still needed to keep DS safe during his visits with his father.
XAH's family. Well, I'm still trying to get over the "please like me" little girl whine. I'm trying though.