There are not any naranon meeting where I live. So I go to alanon. For me, my father was an alcoholic right up to when he passed at age 51. Also, AXBF also is a "very bad drinker" (in my mind an alcoholic). So, for me alanon works very well. And many of the members' qualifiers are addicts in the meeting I go to the most. I think it depends on the dynamics of the group.