I am not on facebook (in my 30s and seems I am one of the few not on there! my mom often tries to get me to join!). So, I don't have a lot of insight into facebook, but I am never a fan of one partner ever trying to control another, so my inclincation is to say you can have whatever facebook friends that you want! Unless he specifically said for recovery reasons he was breaking contact and asking you to do the same, then I really do not see why he should control who your fb friends are!! Especially when there appears to be no reason and he is just being controlling.