Just like your knowledge and information that you can't do his recovery for him, and we can't do yours for you, then you might come to a point that you can also see that you wouldn't be able to design the responses you get when you post here (or really anywhere). Otherwise, you'd just be talking to yourself.
The one thing we learn about the disease of alcoholism is that it isn't picky on what status the alcoholic has. He or she can be of money and fame, or not. He or she can be short, tall, medium sized, good-looking, binge, constant, and all of the above. The disease affects us all much the same, and we know we can do something to put ourselves in a less codependent frame of mind and do something about us.
My RABF is 120+ days in recovery. I'm at a little over a year of recovery from codependency. We each have a long way to go, I'm sure, but today looks a whole lot better than it did at first. I do hope you can find what I have!