I'm so excited and hopeful about how my life is rolling out before me! The fear of change kept me stuck this summer. I had to work through my grief over the loss of the marriage. As others pointed out, when the time was right - I would be able to move forward. To try and do it sooner was forcing change and it wasn't right for me.
For those of you who are stuck.... just keep working on you. Focus on your recovery. Your behaviors and attitudes. Be the best YOU can be... one day a time. It really does work if you work it!
THIS is what I needed to hear today.
I've been in the "should I force change" mode for quite a while. I feel like the grieving of my marriage is coming to an end and I am ok with it for the most part, but the next step just hasn't felt right yet either. I am beginning to feel it'll be ok when it happens, but I also get frustrated with the "holding pattern".
It does me good to read your posts and hear how well you are doing!