I was trying to figure out why you are getting those resentments at aa. i've been there when I got stuck in self-centeredness, this is why I posted this. As we say, if you have resentments with my post, talk to your sponsor. I wasn't offended at all. I attempted to help, but in print, take it as you want.
steps 1-7 are self-centered, it wasn't until mid step 5 did.I start to become other-centered.