Each situation is going to be as unique as the people intimately involved in it.
Some people recover from an addiction and want their lives back. Others recover and move on, needing a clean break from their past, and yet others never find recovery and go from relapse to relapse, drama to drama.
You will find a lot of support here, and I would additionally recommend Al Anon for local fellowship and, if you like, one on one sponsorship to help you through this new phase in your life.
Do remember at the end of it all, that your situation is yours. You didn't cause it, you can't cure it and you can't control it. Many people here dream of their spouse/partner making a change and 'coming back' to the person they once were. You may be one of those who are able to find this as a reality.
