Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl I would bet he has to focus all of his energy on just staying sober, and keeping himself in situations that don't cause undue stress and/or confusion.
If it is meant to be - it will be. In the meantime, go live your life. Have some faith in the process, and detach from his recovery and focus on yours.
I have to agree with TG. Work on your own recovery and as for the relationship let go and let god.
Your friend,