Just a little update. Feeling much better this morning. I have had time to digest what is going on and I have just moved from awareness to acceptance in the awareness, acceptance and action cycle. Divorce is inevitable simply because I no longer want to be part of this relationship any more. It doesn't really matter what the reasons are.
I am going to take my time moving into action. I am working on a plan and it is really long term. There are several advantages to me holding off for a couple of years before preceding with the divorce due to my age. I will just take my time figuring this out but at least now the path is obvious.
Thanks again for everyone's support. I could not have done this without y'all.
Your friend,