Wow Tuffgirl! Thank you for sharing. Very good to know that people around here are watching very closely. My now RAH also reads my stuff on here. A few months back he said something which disclosed that he was reading things. Only place I had said it was on here, so I asked him and he told me yes in fact he had read my postings here. At first I was pretty irritated, but the more I thought about it (for me and my situation) I was actually fine with him reading stuff. I think it was great for him to read what you all thought about our situation. I had nothing to hide from him and things I said on here I would have said (or more than likely did say) to his face. If things got uglier I am not sure how I would have felt about it, but for then it worked.