Originally Posted by
fourmaggie 
as for the ex hubby...I do hope you use this site as an advantage for YOU...you need to work on your PROGRAM ( and you seem to be working on somthing of a program)...there is lots for you to learn here...maybe something will HIT your ROCK BOTTOM and something will click for you...god bless you.....I do have compassion for you and your well being....
Thanks for saying it this way, fourmaggie. I couldn't agree more...and I wish the same thing...because underneath the facade, I know the man I married and I know he is hurting and I wish I could have been the one to offer him comfort but I wasn't...and that's ok...but I hope he finds it somewhere, and not in a bottle of booze anymore, but within himself. He has all the makings of a great man, if only he'd get out of his own way.