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Old 10-16-2011, 02:43 AM
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akrasia
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You're doing great. I can only echo what others are saying above. It's nice that your/his parents are being supportive.

By the way, regarding co-workers and neighbours, it's really none of their business. It's a sad fact that in times of crisis the gossip-hounds come out and you'll find some people being weird and intrusive. If someone is a supportive friend, then sure, tell them what's up if you want. But if someone's trolling for gossip and comes to you with intrusive questions, just smile and say, "Thanks for your concern," and change the subject. Example: nosy co-worker says, "We heard on the police scanner that blah blah blah..." You say, "Thanks for your concern Ms. Parker, you're so sweet. But right now I've got to talk with you about that database changeover..."
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