The less contact, the better. 5 days for me and no word...life is getting a little more peaceful. This Sunday will be two weeks sence he moved out. I don't know how long it takes...I know if I don't enable him he'll stay away and get help when he is ready. So I'm putting my sanity as a first priority and hoping he won't try anything. I just need some major space and so does my marriage. It's funny half the time I'm crying because he hasn't called me in 5 days and half the time I am overjoyed at not having to deal with the conundrum of vipers.