...unless there's physical danger to you or others, I'd encourage you to start telling the truth now so you get used to it. One of the "gifts" alcohol gives those of us who love alcoholics is lying to them, or lying to cover for them.
As for what to expect. Don't expect anything. Just go, keep an open mind, and really, really focus on what people are sharing. Only share yourself if you want to, but please listen to a couple of other folks before you do. Alanon saved my life.
My two cents.
Cyranoak
Originally Posted by
partysover 
Thank you all, I really appreciate your insights and experiences. I'm not sure I can ge around the lying part, particularly for this first meeting.... But since I really dont like lying to her, id probably talk about it before the next one.....